Bonne Saint Valentin --- or not.

Of course, the French know about Valentine’s Day. It’s officially called la Fête de Saint Valentin and commonly called “la fête des amoureux.” (Lovers’ Day) What the French don’t seem to know is how to celebrate it.
That’s not the fault of the jewelry stores, the florists, the chocolate shops, the patisseries or the lingerie shops. All had hopeful displays nestled in red and pink with simpering cupids this week.


It’s not the fault of the women’s magazines, whose February issues feature special recipes and table settings for “romantic dinners”.
The media can't be held responsible. They always have special Valentine’s Day segments in the days before February 14th. In fact, one morning show host said with an ironic smile last week, “What is Valentine’s Day for? It’s to give the media something to talk about.”
If you were to ask French people to describe Valentine’s Day customs, I’m sure the vast majority would tell you that it’s the day men give the woman they love a gift of flowers, candy or jewellery and/or take them out for a special dinner. But do they do it? A recent poll asked how many intended to celebrate today and 50% said yes. Based on my own friends, I’m inclined to believe that was more “giving the expected answer” than exact truth. Either that or the poll was heavily weighted to young, newly-formed couples.
It turns out that this holiday has been known in England for centuries and had travelled to North America via English settlers but was unknown in the rest of Europe until about 30 years ago. Friends confirm that there was no sending of Valentines or giving of presents on this day when they were children or teenagers. And they are stunned to hear that, in North America, Valentine’s Day is not just for lovers. Young children celebrate it happily by sending each other cards and having parties. If you don’t believe me, google “Valentine’s Day parties” and see what turns up.
When it comes to Valentine’s Day, I proudly assert my North American roots. Love is always something to celebrate and to share. So to you, my faithful blog readers, I wish a very happy Valentine’s Day whoever and wherever you are.